Many people go through a period of being unsure of their sexual orientation. Although sex is part of a relationship, it doesn't mean you have to hop in the sack on the first date. Try starting with dating a woman who is sure she is a lesbian. Take it slow and see if dating a lesbian feels right. Relationships aren't just sex. They are also about trust, friendship, sharing. If you just go out looking for another woman to have sex with to see if you are ok with it, you may wind up more confused than you are now.

If you are comfortable with the date, let her know that you are unsure an need to go slow. There is nothing wrong with that. Being compatible in the sac alone isn't enough. Our society seem to push us there faster than it should. There are probably online dating services for lesbians and gay people. See how comfortable you.

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