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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
I agree with you Winterski, most people don't look to see what type of therapy a t practices because A: they don't understand the different theories and B: they just need help at this time in their lives.
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I agree, unless you have an understanding about the different types it is impossible to make an informed choice and I feel that is a real shame. Its not as if you would pick your treatment for cancer randomly out of a bag of...randoms.
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It takes a lot of courage to admit these feelings to ones t. Starshank, I am sorry you didn't get the support or response you needed but don't be disheartened, I think you are very brave to share them with your t and I admire you for you courage and honesty. It's just a shame that he didn't or couldn't see that 
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See I'm not 100% sure it is not what i needed. I think there is a high chance that by not responding he was being cruel to be kind. I think he could have said a bit more, but he is not perfect. Both of us know I have the ability to become OBSESSED with people (not stalker obsessed but pretty damn obsessed) I'm at analysis to try and move on from my old T who I could not get over. So the erotic/love transference has just moved onto him now. So, he has known this will probobably happen for a while. I think there is a good chance he does admire my courage and honesty but is not saying that (I don't get praised!) He he. You know, your helping me process this and i think i am going to reserve judgement about his approach and trust him a bit more. I'm ok. I will talk about it again and see how things go. Thank-you.