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Originally Posted by notgoodenuf
I have a problem with telling my T I need positive feedback. Why can't my t see that's what I need and provide it? I mean they are supposed to be smart no? The problem I see in asking for a compliment is that if I have to ask then you don't feel I deserve it. If you don't feel I deserve to be told I'm good or kind or beautiful....then you won't say it. Silence speaks volumes and it hurts.
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Some people are great at giving compliments or positive feedback, others aren't. Usually it depends on what kind of person they are. I wouldn't question your T's intelligence - perhaps he/she just isn't huge on compliments or hasn't been given a lot of compliments himself.
If you are not hearing many compliments, that absolutely doesn't mean you don't deserve them.
Do you think you are kind, beautiful etc? Can you believe that you are? I wish someone would tell you. I think you are smart and witty, from what I can read in your posts..
If you ever need a compliment, I am ready to give you a sincere one
Because I am sure there are a lot of things about you I would compliment in real life!