Wow, i feel like we got sidetracked from mast's op.

I have an ongoing thing with my t about attractiveness also. Mast, unless you are incredibly photogenic, in which case you should have been a model, you simply cannot be so objectively unattractive. That, or anybody looks cute when their photo is taken with a kitten! Since your t "indirectly confirmed" this, i would encourage you to be brave and clarify it with him. I have done so a couple of times with my t, when i was SURE he said A, but upon asking, he claims he said B. My t was like, why would i say that?? I was like, darn, i thought for once you agreed with me!