What you're talking about sounds like a form of String Theory! Don't be afraid to talk about it (I know easier said than done), it's truly fascinating. And since none of us can physically prove what happens after death, no one is wrong in any way.

Me, personally, I don't believe much of anything happens besides the passing on of energy in the form of atoms, etc, into other living things (biologists too haha). I once believed in heaven and all of that, but after my own upbringing and what I've learned and taught myself, I really don't feel like there is anything waiting for me on the other side. And that's okay! When I say this to people, they give me the saddest looks or tell me to stop being so pessimistic, and it has nothing to do with pessimism. I am comfortable knowing, or well thinking, that there is nothing waiting for me after death. I am okay with that, I've experienced the death of my brother and that got me really thinking on it and what he said himself before death.

I used to be terrified of dying because I didn't know (and still don't know, really) what there is or isn't after death. I think accepting my own ideas and my own path on this subject has brought me more peace than anything or anyone else, which can be said for what anyone believes might happen/not happen after death.

You just find your own mind here and let it grow and resolve it's self and stay open for new explanations and acceptances.