i know this sounds like so much hogwash, but the male doctors that i've worked with see "it" as a body part and part of their job. and i've only worked with one who was an --- and that was years ago and he was a resident.....and he got kicked out of school.
there are lots of female nurse practioners and physician's assistants that are available now. ask the doctor's offfice if they have them on their staff.....most offices are more than willing to accomodate an anxious patient....
the main thing is to stay HEALTHY....so do have a check-up......xoxoxo pat