you don't have to discuss, anything with them, until you've made your plans. Legally speaking, they aren't even at the age of consent. This is about you, your wellbeing, which translates to their own.
My oldest, is the only one who knows I'm considering moving out of state, and only found out by chance. If anything, he embraces the notion. Had to disclaim with him, it's up to a judge to decide.

In your case, sounds like a volatile situation. Make your choices, without their input. They'll recover, if you are feeling confident about whatever choice you decide. They are kids, not confidantes.

It will sort out, as you get through your own emotions and inner conflicts.


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