I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Sounds very unethical on her part and that SHE has a lot of issues of her own; I agree with above posters that you're better off w/out her. Inexcusable on her part and it sounds like this is all on her - transference is a natural part of the therapy process and t's are supposed to be trained to deal with it. There ARE good t's out there, mine has been a godsend for me, please don't give up because of this bad apple. you are worth finding a good t!