Thanks for the advice, I did contact legal aid but because the hearing is within 30 days they cannot...I filed continuance papers on my own yesterday morning (Friday) asking for more time so I could secure counsel through legal aid. I asked for at least 30 days and wrote on the paper that it was because legal aid required it. I just hope Monday they call me and approve it.
My kids dad was vicious enough to slap me with 2 contempts and attorney fees along with the custody. He should feel lucky he even has visitation.