My T does compliment me sometimes it is on something I am wearing or the color I am wearing...she really likes when I wear a certain blue or purple....this is nice but more importantly she compliments me on on issues who I am am...One of my biggest issues is worrying about my being a good enough parent. Whenever I beat myself up over parenting issues (often unfounded) she will say I know you will disagree but I think you are an amazing parent. She has also told me that parents of children with ADHD get a free ride to heaven (jokingly of course) and since I have 2 with it...I am ALL set..While in that moment the compliments may not help me over time things are getting better..