I totally agree with sister. We know the ropes..all to well I'm afraid...which makes it easier for us to actually BELIEVE in each other compared to the "professionals" who for some odd reason tend to skim right over the fact that we are SUFFERING in a way that a mere script can handle. The appointments are short and often too long inbetween so it's hard for them to be compassionate. My opinion in any situation compassion far out weighs any text book fix. When you feel like all is lost please try to focus on the fact that just by questioning things means that you believe somewhere deep inside, that there is hope.