Ugh, it actually makes me mad to hear about T's ignoring their clients when, as others have said, we pay them for this.

My best work came out of telling my T that it wasn't working. We talked a lot about it (over a period of months) and worked through all of it. I can say with 100% confidence it was worth the effort. I encourage you to bring up these issues with your T, with brutal honesty, and see what you can hash out with her.

I;m sorry she's ignoring you