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Originally Posted by 1914sierra
Where on earth do you get from your session that you were being manipulative Granite. Stop doing that to yourself. You are upset, but you are upset because of how your family treats you. You seem to place the blame on everyone but the real cause of your pain and grief. Can you try to refocus on the actual cause of the pain and upset you were feeling when you walked into the session last week? You are actually making yourself the scapegoat now. Do you see that? Don't buy into your family's garbage.
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how ??? im not being argumentative here .my T said basically the same thing. I don't understand it and cant see it . I really am upset .I know im feeling horrible . I am trying to not engage with people and my farther at all. I am just thinking that maybe I was being manipulative because I know that gets T mad. she seemed so angry .but maybe that is just me .I don't honestly know it seemed so much like she was acting just like my family. that might be a clue that it is just me because although it seemed like it .why would my T do this. what would she get out of it ?what does she want from me by doing it . I don't know . i'm also trying to figure out how not to be scared to go back on tuesday