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Old Mar 16, 2014, 08:30 AM
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I don't know why I find ending friendships or taking space from friendships harder than a romantic break up, but gosh it's been my reality.
Not proud to say, in my younger years, taken the passive avoidance approach, but I have. Of course, at this stage in life, being all grown up, where would that get me?

There's two ways, that cross my mind here. Face to face or via letter format.

Clearly, it's turned into a one sided support system. With crying in public, no less. How does one, cleverly end this, without seeming to tear up anothers fragile esteem? Do you come right out and say that you aren't getting any or much value from being friends? Or does it come back to just being too busy right now in life, and her knowing enough of you, comes across as falsehood?
Now I'm wondering about slowly drifting...
My brain can't seem to think of solutions, writing out loud, hoping for a solution to come to me...

Gosh, i hope others have some good ideas...



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