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I have a co-worker/friend who keeps making suggestions of things I should do for my fibro and chronic fatigue. I tried politely telling her that I have tried all the things she is suggesting and they don't work. I've tried telling her that I stay on top of new ideas for treatment and consult with my doctor when I hear of something new.
She persists in offering suggestions. She also comments "It's not fair that you feel this way." I told her that I avoid thinking that way because it leads to me sitting on the pity pot. She continues to offer suggestions and make the same comment.
I've run out of nice ways of responding to her. I realize she is doing it out of concern for me, but it's started to feel invasive. There are times I'd like to scream at her to leave me alone. I'm not going to because I understand her motivation. I sure could use some ideas how to respond though. Ideas anyone?
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