There are many many people who want to live a quiet life. But you most likely won't find those girls in bars or concerts.....

I think you may do better with an online dating service....you can get a good feel for someone talking with them online. What there likes and dislikes are....
Plus you have nothing to lose, really.

I don't really understand why your college degree is useless....All jobs are difficult to come by and you may have to do something you don't like until you are able to get a job in your desired field.
My son is an incredible artist, and right now he's working as a kennel attendant
Also living at home.....(it's just the way of things now..)
But, slowly, his work is getting out there.