growli, i am a 33 year old virgin, fyi. i have VERY little experience with men. i did have a few boyfriends in High School, and so i do have some experience. When i graduated college, i felt so abnormal, like no guy will want to date a girl with no experience, esp at that age. i was wrong. a guy that i had been friends with for a few years admitted to me that he had liked me for years. i dated him for a few months, and he was truly 100% ok with me taking it as slow as i wanted. the problem was that i had so much anxiety at the end of our dates "i bet this is the time he'll want sex. what will happen tonight?" that i eventually broke up with him. The thing is, that was ALL on me. We spoke after we broke up, and he said that he felt bad because he would NEVER have pushed anything on me (and he never did, but my anxiety was too much), and he would have waited as long as needed.

My long-winded point here is that there are guys like him out there. I've known a lot of super nice guys in my years, that probably would be like the dude i dated. They are out there.