Gosh! What I would have done to experience a guy like you when I was in my early 20's.Even in my generation I was led to believe that a kind of man like you was rare to find. It wasn't until I was in my late 30's did I experience a man who was younger than me. But also shared my new found or my reclaimed belief that I did not have to settle for. I finally found a man who wanted more in a relationship then just a fly by night fling.Because we waited until I was ready my first sexual experience with him ; I always looked back at it with good warm feelings of emotions and excitement. And we had made an emotional connection before our fist time together all we did by adding sex to the equation was deepen that connection.IMO actions speak louder than words and when a man is tender in bed this is an action of respect for himself as well as his partner.

And they say that the first sexual experience is laying down the foundation of your relationship.

When you keep staying true to yourself in the relationship it is giving you the assurance that you are staying healthy in that relationship.

I think that "Your a rare gem, its just that the other rare gem has not found you yet."

Smilie