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Originally Posted by DirtyDog04
I have anxiety for multiple reasons, the most obvious being that I'm a virgin. I'm 23 which I suspect is above average. I am a good looking guy, so that could work in my favor. I'm on a bunch of meds for paranoid thinking and mood instability. I have an inconsistent libido. Finally I get frustrated when I see other people in successful relationships, or even more so when they are just hooking up, even just watching tv and movies. I even start to feel angry. I don't get out much. I haven't seen any friends in months, I'm not sure if they like me anymore. Now to a question:
Should I hook up with a prostitute? Will that make me feel any better? Do I have a chance at dating (not expecting sex) given how much of a screwball I am?  |
Hmm.
I don't know if a prostitute will make you feel better or worse....
You're good looking....I suspect that a lot of women will think that you are already in a relationship.
Meds can cause libido problems, so don't lump that in with your emotions, it's purely a physical thing...look up the side effects for what you're taking and see if there's an alternative for you to try.
I don't think you're a screwball at all. It's just that you're obsessing about your virginity.
Because of this, you are noticing relationships all around you....much like someone who's on a diet...there's chocolate everywhere
You're still very young, even though you don't think you are. You're only 23....
There's no cut off date for you. Get out with your friends more. Go have a beer and start chatting to girls.
Try some online dating sites.
Find someone special that you really like....or at least like.