Mmm ... not to be contrary, but I don't feel this is completely accurate. If you fall in the middle "normal" range, then yes, it's all about the guy. But if you fall into the extremes on one end or the other, then it can become a bit of a problem. There was a guy on here that was so big he hurt women with it and if you fall under the "normal" range, you don't "fill" your partner well.

That said, there are ways around size and proper attention to your partner as well as using all your senses and body parts can certainly make a huge difference in the experience you give your partner.