Hi, I'd certainly say that you're giving a lot of insight and inspiration to others, giving people the confidence to say.......and allowing them to feel understood too. You are amazing!!
If I'm reading it right (??) you must love your wife very much?? Which is priceless, not everyone will find love like that!!
But I can see how things could be really hard for you at times too. Maybe gradually (very gradually) with just a little more discussion.........I can see it may be quite a "sensitive" area........she may open up to being accepting of just a bit more "nibbling around the edges"??
But ultimately remember that there does have to be some "give and take" (from her side) in allowing you to be able to be as close to being you as you can/want to.
And again: You are amazing!!



Alison