Exactly, I find it so embarrassing being 20 where I live around the college lifestyle and how it's so much different than a decade ago. I mean people there acted stupid got drunk and did things they regretted, but people were what I've heard from people a bit more in the know where I live or that time, say that, "Your generation is hopeless, they are so entitled to stuff that getting the simplest things done are impossible because they think their self worth is more important than helping a drunk friend get home or even being kind to people with general respect." and just I see when you try to tell a woman she is pretty my age. Usually she will say thanks, but generally a compliment is more taken as an insult, because more women my age and it's growing for concern for preteens and girls in highschool to believe that if you get any compliment they don't mean it, it's smart to be leery, but what does happen instead of just telling the person thanks being a bit passive aggressive if they aren't feeling for the compliment. They lash out in anger abruptly and act like they think you are wanting sex from them. That doesn't happen too often to me, but it's more often in my city than other places. Sex doesn't seem as some ultimate goal to me nor marriage and if people don't know what they want and not tell the person they want to be in a relationship what they need and want, which is common place unfortunately how could anything work out with anyone? other than going to certain places where people use their brains not their emotions