I gotta say though, I don't really believe the whole men just want sex on dating sites thing. There are definitely guys who will go out of there way to read someone's entire profile and write a well thought-out message. But likely enough those messages get ignored too. So I believe a lot of it really just is based on looks coming from both sides. I would love to meet her, but she won't get here till the summer. I really don't see myself meeting anyone in person in the mean time, mainly because I have acute social anxiety. But as for now, yeah I am just going to try maybe calling her or skyping with her.