Ok, so:
1) the poll winner is Black. So be it.
2) Nordstrom is a chain of expensive high quality stores with unlimited return policy in the states. Sorry Illegal..., I know you are an Aussie, and I should have explained.
3)
psychehedone - I cannot wear inexpensive bras outside, because of my size. I am 36G, and cheap stores such as Target (Illegal - an American chain of decent but inexpensive stores) do not carry beyond 36C. They either carry small band/small cup bras, or large band/large cup bras (think 44G), but my size combination, which is medium band/large cup, is not available. That is why I buy from Nordstrom, and, really, I only shop for shoes and bras at Nordstrom - everything else comes from Target/Ross/Nordstrom rack. I find that bras and shoes are the hardest items to find the right fit for.
I do realize though that for greeting a man at the door I can buy a cheap bra that does not fit exactly right.