Here, from my inbox as I receive updates via email:

"Re: Should I do this?
http://forums.psychcentral.com/sexua...ml#post3600097
Posted by: Lycanthrope
On: 02-21-2014 12:35 PM

Ask yourself these two questions.

1. Do you really want to have sex or is because you don't to no longer be a virgin?
2. Do you really find the man attractive or is he just someone who's of convinience to lose your virginity to?

If it's the former to both questions then go ahead and have sex. If it's the latter response to both then you're not ready.

I think waiting for true love and all this unicorn stuff, you could be waiting forever. The 1st time for many isn't special, it gets better with practice. So if you want sex go ahead and do it, just get unrealistic expectations about it since you're both virgins, and make sure you don't end up pregnant.".

Just to make sure that you do not decide that I am following you - I have a nearly perfect verbal recall so when I read something, I remember. I wish my recall of driving directions were as good, but the opposite is true.

At any rate, since you do not have any experience with true love, why have you even opened the OP???? You have led the thread completely astray and have not even respected my wish to be heard FIRST, before opining (I made it clear that I was not done with the story). I do not know what to do with this now because it has gone hopelessly off topic. If you do not know what loves is - and, my point was, only a few people do - why did you do what you did, injecting a completely weird message like this one? What was the point? Oh, and thanks for teaching me politeness. I never "offered" the could be rapist a blowjob - as soon as I realized that giving a blowjob would be the safest option, I proceeded to execution. within milliseconds. Apparently, one needs to "offer" blowjobs, even to would be rapists. Geez, thanks. I have never offered anyone a blowjob - I have always proceeded on the assumption that it would be a welcome gift. But now I know - a woman has to first OFFER a blowjob and not just proceed. By the way, is an oral offer, no pun intended, enough??? Or should the offer be written? Please tell me. Otherwise, please keep away from the thread - if you are so super polite that you think that sex should be OFFERED to potential rapists, can you be polite enough not to take my threads away from their intended topic? this is by the way a support site.