orchidlotus
I think aiming to repair these relationships is essential in order to grow as a human being and in order to be at peace with oneself.

I suppose its possible for some to repair their relationship, if there is an genuine apology, explanations and a shift in attitude.
My parents however would never admit fault for anything, they were perfect. History is rewritten to suit, repair is not possible, anyway the damage is done.

I am going to say it. I HATE MY MOTHER. because of her I will never be the person I should have been, she ruined my life in so many ways.

I have come to a sort of peace, acceptance.