I am hanging on to someone because I think I won't find anyone else. That is gonna be true for at least as long as I am in college, which is 4 more years(trust me on this). What should I do? The relationship is having its ups and downs and sometimes becomes too much to bear and my partner kind of controls it. She dumps me too often and the only reason we lasted for 2 years is because I never let her go when she wanted to. Eventually she would come back and say that she loves me, but now I wonder if its just me who makes it work is it really a true relationship. And also if I end this I am sure to be alone for 4 years.What should I do?