I wouldn't mind meeting someone online, but most of the messages I get from guys are pushy (like wanting my phone number after the first message that says "hi"). I've given up on okcupid and am going to try a paid site. I had too many crazy people contact me. One said how beautiful I was and when I told him I couldn't chat anymore and go to bed, he went on a tirade about how ugly I was, how I should take him because I wouldn't find anyone else because I was so ugly. And even worse things...Yikes! Another guy I met seemed nice and we were texting a lot and had a few dates, but the signs were there that he wasn't telling me the truth and I think he was married.
It can be good, just be careful. I'm going to try a paid site in hopes some of these crazy people won't be on them, or wanting to spend the money.
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