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Old Mar 18, 2014, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
Would you please say "play humiliation" rather than "humiliation" in your posts from now on? Just four more letters, but the difference is night and day.

There are people who are humiliated against their will, and the word "humiliation" is reserved to describe their experiences, and only their experiences. If a "sissy" or whoever wants "humiliation", it is not real humiliation, but play humiliation, or pretend humiliation. I do not insist on my word choice, but there should be some word choice you are comfortable with that sets the experiences of "sissies" or whoever those people are apart from the experiences of people who are humiliated without asking for it. It is simply deeply disrespectful towards people who are humiliated for real, and not for play, to treat humiliation as non-chalanantly as you did in your post. One cannot be "into humiliation", that I can tell you for sure. So please watch what you say.
It seems that my post has triggered you, and I'm sorry for that. The language I used is quite standard in the BDSM community, and the proclivity quite common, thus what seemed like non-chalance to you. I would be happy to use the term "(consensual) humiliation" here, as this would set it apart from what you are talking about.
Thanks for this!
CantExplain, hamster-bamster