Men can very much so be drama queens, we are overly sensitive and can get paranoid and worrisome when we don't get a text or response back. But I can totally see how those one-liner messages from guys can be offensive and annoying. Still though, just because a guy will write an actual well thought out message does NOT mean they will get a reply. Girls will as well simply ignore a guy because they don't think he's attractive or cool. But as for the stigma, yeah ok, I can see that, there being no stigma anymore. And thanks for relating it to bars, I suppose I hadn't really thought about that. Would I really want to meet a girl drunk at a bar? I have often been tempted to pursue that whole road (I am in college, early 20s) of just hanging around bars trying to meet girls, or even just going to parties to meet girls. It just feels so weird to me (not judging, just really isn't something I feel describes me). So I guess yeah, nothing wrong with just saying we met online, right? And yes I totally know the whole cat fish deal. I haven't been catfished but have definitely found people in real life to look a lot different than they do in their pictures online.