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Originally Posted by LifeIsCruel
It has never been a part of me, and never will.....seen 21 "professionals" in my life....boy howdy!
Yeah..esteem...it will never be grasped by me....
I am Male...have hair loss--tried all the "cures" nothing works....
Also, I always wanted "the look" (like Ronnie Coleman or Lee Priest or Phil Heath--Google images if you do not know them)...but AGAIN! Nothing worked! I worked out over 4 years...ate right, took supplements, and even did steroids (don't say it-hair loss was there already)...could never attain the look 
They say personality counts...yeah right....I try and have a nice personality..but what happen when a guy comes along with personality AND hair AND muscles?? Do not answer, I already know! The women you are with either A.) dump you for him B.) Fantasize about him or C.) they do both |
Well, for 1, having "the look" requires more than steroids. It's a combination of genetics, HGH, steroids, diet, deep tissue massage, exercise and other stuff. If you're missing one aspect of that, then you won't get there.
Besides, 'roids are for cowards that can't do it on their own anyway.
Second, I've seen plenty of your posts and your self-esteem seems to be fixated on 2 things: your appearance compared to an unachievable concept and women.
If I still focused my self-esteem on my basketball ability, I would be miserable. No matter how good I got, I'm never going to be able to compete even at a collegiate level. I simply don't have the physical tools.
So first I think you need to consider setting an achievable goal. One that depends on you, not on a woman or someone else, but you can achieve through your own hard work. Write a book, place in the top 10 of a powerlifting meet, rebuild the carburetor on an old car ... anything you can do.
Second, don't let women affect your self-esteem. You have less than 10 seconds when you meet them. This means either you have look like Hugh Jackman or you're gonna have to work on it and get to know them. Either way, your self-esteem is going to take a beating so don't let it get affected by women. Do your thing, achieve your goal, set another one and then if a woman comes along, fine, if they don't. That's fine too.