In January of 2013 I asked out a girl that I was absolutely sure was "the one" if such a thing exists. She turned me down and I haven't been able to get her out of my head. She has since graduated from my university and has moved away. Odds are I will never see her again but we have been in semi-regular contact through facebook and texting. Even though we never actually went out and it's been over a year I'm still not completely over her. It took months after she rejected me for me to even look at another girl without feeling like I was cheating on her and every time we talk I can't help but smile at every aspect of her personality. Unfortunately it has been difficult to find someone else since she is so great she effectively became my standard for women, blowing every standard I had before out of the water. Every time I think I'm over her, something comes up that makes me wish we were together even though logically there is almost zero chance of that ever happening. How do I get over her and move on with my life?