Well, its not so much about how to get over her (because there's nothing between you that warrants getting over), but more about how to get over the rejection.

I'm no head dr, but IMO, sounds like you keep this relative stranger on a pedastal to avoid being rejected in future. I mean, if no one measures up to this unrealistic standard you've set, you give nobody else a chance, and thus nobody has the opportunity to reject you.

Because really what do you KNOW that she's got, that no other girl has? And why place her on a pedastal and make her thee standard when she didn't even bother to give you a chance?

I get the whole "nobody compares to you" deal, I sincerely do. Difference is, I personally know who I'm talking about and can make actual comparisons, while you're comparing ideas you have.

People fall in and out of love all the time, but true love is reciprocated. If I decide I'm in love with Johnny Depp because I've seen in depth interviews, think he's brilliant and admire his work, doesn't mean he's the one, not even if I follow him on twitter.

I can see this obviously bugs you and I'm not trying to belittle your experience by my bluntness. What I am trying though, is to show you that I think you're focussing on the wrong issue and that's why a year later you've not made any moves forward.

I may be wrong, you may not fear rejection at all. I mean idk you from a bar of soap. But I do know that this girl isn't the issue because she never gave you a chance to become an issue in the first place.

My advice? Dig a little deeper (honestly) and you'll find what you seek.