Thank you for your responses. I was told before that the only way to move foreword was to cut off contact with her but every fiber of my being has resisted that so far. As to whether or not I'm just afraid of rejection I would definitely say I am. Her and I were friends for months before I asked her out and I've never met anyone I had more in common with before or since her. I guess the reason I haven't been able to get over her is because if she didn't want to go out with me I'm afraid no one will.