I wrote a reply earlier, but it isn't here. Maybe I forgot to hit the continue button. Anyway, my husband's secretary got divorced on Valentine's day (that was the day the paperwork went through). She has since then celebrated Valentine's Day as her liberation day.

Hang in there! You are working towards a better life, and it will happen.
Wendy

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