Target those you're into, and try to forget what your parents think. We can't choose who we're attracted to, it's who we are born to be with.

Relationships are complicated whether you're gay, straight, or bi. If your relationships haven't worked out in the past it may very well have nothing to do with the gender, but the compatiblity of the people involved and perhaps even their readiness to be in a relationship at that time.

Personally I'm pretty much into men. Even porn, I don't want straight couples, I'd want gay men (don't watch it because the husband doesn't agree and I wouldn't watch it alone), but I do have a draw to men who crossdress. I think it's less their look and more their boldness to be who they want to be in a generally unaccepting society. It probably also helps that I usually see them in Burlesque show so it comes off too. Me-ow!