Don't be afraid. You could be angry but that clouds judgment. You could fight back but I think this is one of those time that it isn't the best course of action But I think ignore is the way to go here. You may recall a while back when a small group of people (including your antagonist I think) tried to get me banned? Didn't work out so well. There are ways of dealing with this kind of thing. When someone uses the sympathy card often enough it becomes obvious that this is the way they operate. Mastering the art of drawing sympathy is not a healthy strategy and in the end the lack of integrity may even become clear to the person using it. Or maybe not... but it's does become clear to others until eventually there's nobody else to play.
Hit that button
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Originally Posted by sidestepper
I am afraid of retaliation if I do that years ago before she got three of my friends kicked off I friended her.
Do you think it would work to use the ignore button?
I do realize a large part of my redaction is because my entire life I have defended those that got picked on by bullies. In grade school I I fought them by 6th grade I had the words to defeat the bullies without being physical. It just really sets me off when someone thinks only their feelings matter and any one else is inconsequential. Especially when they get away with that behavior time after time. This is the kind of person who goes after other people by pushing their buttons until they snap back. You know the kind that tease their sib lies until they struck and then go crying to mom. Often they think someone's witty remark or humor is directed solely at them, when it's not.
But to be honest I feel so useless and don't think anyone would miss me. I was surprised to see any responses. I think I'm getting extremely depress and overwhelmed with trying to move.
No, useless it is not you or anyone here. I don't think she's been to the depression forum for a while, that's why I chose here to post this.
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