I feel sorry for the baby.

I just did the math. So, when you were 18, you got all involved with a girl who was 14. Isn't that against the law?

The both of you are in for some tough times. Your girlfriend's job, right now, should be getting through high school, if she hasn't already done so.

As to what you should do . . . maybe she should stay living with her parents, and you with yours. (At least, until you each finish growing up. That's not meant to offend you. It's simply what is true of the vast majority of people her age and your age. The baby needs to be in a home where there is an adult on the premises. hannabee's suggeston above is well worth considering, though I doubt either one of you will.)