Bless your heart! I hope all goes well with your baby, with all you've got going on. I really don't know what to say about the situation with your husband. You sound very devoted, so there must be something to him that's good, but unless playing the guitar can earn a living for you he really needs prioritize things differently. My 1st husband played guitar too. He had a hard time keeping a job as well. Since he wouldn't keep a job, I used to encourage him to start a band and try to play at clubs or something. But of course, that never worked out. I wish I had some good advice for you! I used to "threaten" to go live with my mom until he got a job and could support us .(he was too jealous to let ME hold down a job!) Maybe, just maybe if you "suggest" something of that sort (until he is more financially stable) he might try a little harder?