Informative thread! Thanks for the links, Alexandra. I have only been seeing current T for a couple of months. I know I am forming an attachment to her but at the same time feel intimidated.

I am so sure that if she gets to know me very well she won't like me at all; which probably is a very common feeling. So I have all these things I want to tell her and then get there and chicken out! And, she is going out of her way to seem non-threatening, so I guess it's just my nature to be this way. I like her approach though, as a cooler, more distant therapist does me no good at all - even more intimidation.