I need help reaching my girl. We were together for seven years. Then we had a breakup. It's been fourteen months w/o any word from her. Tried reaching a friend of hers and her sister, they won't talk to me either. I might be able to talk to her brother but don't know what to say or if I should even try after this long. She didn't leave me for another. My weakness due to financial difficulties led to our breakup.