The one thing I've learn is that, it really doesn't matter that much who's falt is it anyway. What matters the most is, what can I do to prevent it from happening again.
I do tend to blame myself for a lot of things, but I always tell myself: How much time do I want to waist putting blame on me instead of learning or figuring out what I need to do to prevent it from happening again? IT TRULLY DOESN'T MATTER WHO'S FAULT IT IS.
I just think about what I need to do different the next time around.
gab