I try to be honest with my T but being honest sets off alarm bells for me. It goes against all of my defenses. I don't lie but I tend to skip things or minimize stuff unless he asks directly. That's getting a little better the more I trust him though. When I first started therapy I was still living with my abuser and didn't tell my T until something I said prompted him to ask. I was worried how he would respond or what he would say.