I am as honest as possible with T. I do fear though that sometimes I lie without knowing that i'm lying to her. She has addressed my concerns about this and said that she thinks I'm not a liar and in fact i'm extremely honest and she doesn't think i've ever lied to her (to my knowledge I have not). She did say, though, that if I ever did lie, she thinks it would not be to be deceptive but out of self preservation. She's a very smart & perceptive woman.