I understand you're getting financial support, but is the amount of extra financial support you are getting from him worth the amount of emotional pain he's putting you through?

Clearly, he's not giving you THAT much financial support if your utilities are still being shut off. If that tiny amount of money is worth more than the amount of pain you are going through, then stay. But to me, you ought to at least have the benifit of being more financially well off if you are going to go through all that crap. Although, IMHO, it's not worth any amount of money.

Your life would be of much better quality if you get out of that relationship. Hell, you might even physically heal faster.

Be strong babe, you don't deserve this.