Ty iwonderif- I've read about transference and counter transference and it doesn't seem to fit my situation. But I'm usually the "therapist" in my friendships/relationships so I see where I messed up. I think he did a lot of self disclosure at my request and now I've seen him as more than just a therapist. Not saying I know everything about him. But probably way more than most people know about there therapist. So maybe I really do need to switch therapists. We've had 2 visits since out "talk" and honestly we smile and laugh a lot. Its nice after being depressed for so long. And we are a lot alike. Oh well. Ty for the advice!