Gloria,
I agree with Rapunzel. There is no way you are suppose to feel. While you may have wanted a seperation the actual act of getting a divorce can stir up feelings that you did not think that you would feel. I would believe that it would be normal to have some feelings of guilt and sadness. The loss of a relationship is still a loss.

My thoughts are with you.


If you need anything, or even to call me, you have my number and I am here.

Jessica

<font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>