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But I also think it's important to understand that some people DO see it as sexual and that seeing it that way is beyond their control. )

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Here I'm referring to the child not the parent. It took me years to understand it, but as an adult I'm able to realize that I experienced sexual arousal as a child without being able to understand what it was (I had no idea what sexual feelings were at that time).

Sid