I'm not sure it's wise to over analyze things. 3 to 5 porn vids a month is hardly an addiction. A lot of women would love to have what youve got and what your husband has given you. Why don't you try watching porn together. And don't 'CONFRONT' him over such things. You'll drive him away. A little porn can spice up a relationship and if i ( or my girlfriend) suggested it i wouldn't expect to be villified as freaky. Glad to hear that things have turned round though and hope that carries on. Be more open with each other though. The voice of experience haha( if my gf reads this she'll laugh). love and peace xx