sounds like a lot of stuff going on for you at the moment. am sorry you have to deal with it all hon. that would be a horrible horrible boundary violation for you mum to come on here and read your private stuff. it shouldnt be too difficult to change your screen name if that would make you feel safer? im sure a mod or admin could help with that.
i hope your husband lets this nagging drop and your mum forgets about it.
take care hon
((((((((((((jinny)))))))))))